To 18 Years and beyond!!!!
Tuesday, 30 April 2019
Befuddled at 21
We did it! He's 21 years old! It hasn't been easy over the last 3 years, and 18 til now feels as if it has been the hardest and ...
Sunday, 14 October 2018
Much wanted contact
My son met up with his birth dad yesterday, it wasn't the first time this has happened but its only the second time they've met alon...
Saturday, 25 August 2018
Befuddled by friendships
Today I feel resentful and overwhelmed! Overwhelmed by trauma and resentful of its continuing impact on our lives. My 20 year old can on...
Sunday, 11 March 2018
Befuddled by Mothers Day
I don't really like Mothers Day! I understand why. I get that He can't manage it That it reminds him of his birth mum That a...
Monday, 13 November 2017
Contact - A guest post
I've blogged before about our unwanted contact from birth family and it was well received, I suppose it's most adoptive families wo...
Thursday, 19 October 2017
Befuddled for 13 years
13 years ago today as I walked up a foster carers path I could already hear my new son shouting 'new mummy here' and as the door ope...
Friday, 29 September 2017
Befuddled by the benefits trap!
Oh my word! The boy wonder has a part time job! Amazing! He found it himself! He's earning! He's managing to hold it down! I'm p...
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