To 18 Years and beyond!!!!

In August I found out that my son would become a dad at Christmas.  As I knew they would, and as we had frequently discussed,  his early lif...

We did it! He's 21 years old! It hasn't been easy over the last 3 years, and 18 til now feels as if it has been the hardest and ...

My son met up with his birth dad yesterday, it wasn't the first time this has happened but its only the second time they've met alon...

Today I feel resentful and overwhelmed! Overwhelmed by trauma and resentful of its continuing impact on our lives. My 20 year old can on...

I don't really like Mothers Day! I understand why. I get that He can't manage it That it reminds him of his birth mum That a...

I've blogged before about our unwanted contact from birth family and it was well received, I suppose it's most adoptive families wo...

13 years ago today as I walked up a foster carers path I could already hear my new son shouting 'new mummy here' and as the door ope...